Sissy Training and Sissies

Sissy Training is fast becoming one of my most favorite activities.

I adore my sissies! And really, what is not to adore? (Aside from the time wasting Dicks that is.. )

Lets start with the adorable Sissy Sluts

My little sissy sluts each have their own personalities. Some arrive all confident, arrogant in their business success, their looks or their abilities in the non sissy world. Some are shy, quiet and reserved, having hid their sissy nature for way too long. Some are bouncy and happy, some are reserved. I train each of them differently. The arrogant ones learn quickly that I am not here at their pleasure.

Even as a pro (which, to some extent CAN be a great deal like fantasy fulfillment) I don't put up with crap from my little sissies. I expect respect. I expect to feel adored. I am not impressed by titles, looks, social standing or athleticism. I certainly am not interested in their useless cocks.

Yes, it is a joy to watch the arrogant ones learn to respect me, to envy me for my femininity.

The shy ones I nurture. i help them see the value of their own femininity. I tutor them in having pride in service, in how to adore their Mistress and gain a sense of pride, satisfaction and joy in the doing.

For every personality, for every single sissy who has come my way, training has varied. I match their training to what i observe in them. I strive to find a balance between meeting my needs and theirs. To guide someone through this journey is an incredible honor. For many of people, being a world in which we are so very trapped by our gender, (and don't kid yourself ladies, men are oh so very trapped by societal expectations of masculinity, in different ways yes, but still trapped. Women are allowed to be strong, men are abhorred for any perceived weakness) is a painful experience. They are constantly denied the right to feel, the right to cry, the right to enjoy soft silk against their skin, the right to not be in charge. To lead people into a world where they are taught to see themselves as gentle, as subservient, as soft, pretty, adorable and sweet; all the while learning that these are desirable traits to be valued, to be trusted with their fear, their pain, their sweetness and shame is sometimes overwhelming. To guide someone through this type of journey is an incredible high for me.

Don't mistake me. Sissy training is demanding. It is not all sweetness and sugar. There is mocking, humiliation, menial tasks, protocols and a pile of hard work. My sissies learn quickly that being a woman is damned hard work. If they think they are going to put on a wig and dress and be adored and pegged they learn quickly this is not the case. My sissies spend hours locked into their high heels. They practice walking with the posture board, with me laughing at them as they stumble about like graceless oxen. I have no sympathy. (Do you have any idea how many men demand I do 8 hour sessions in 7"high heeled thigh high boots?)

I make them learn to move with grace. To take small steps. To be feminine. To LOVE being feminine. The more feminine they get, the more rewards they find in my service. My poor little sissies spend a great deal of time being bound, and helpless with a rubber cock in their mouth. Sometimes my 'cock' (strap-ons are wonderful , aren't they?) but the ones who haven't earned that much privilege are stuck with dildos attached to punishment stations.

My poor sissies learn quickly that I am an expert at finding what you do not like. And I will oh so use that knowledge. I don't punish spanking sluts with spankings, or humiliation queens with nasty talk.

Under my care a sissy learns all sorts of wonderfully useful things.

How to serve tea or coffee

How to run a proper bath

How to do my hair

How to clean my dungeon

How to clean the house

How to cook a simple meal.

How to care for my tools

How to assist in my sessions

How to entertain

How to suck a dick (dildo)

My sweet sissy sluts learn some more interesting things

How to adore and cherish a woman How to be proud yet subservient

How to be graceful

How to dress female

How to style a wig How to piss themselves in shame because I demand it of them.

How to cry like babies.

How to feel.

How to accept the parts of themselves that are gentle.

I work my ass off in these sessions. I plan, I study, I learn. I have to balance on that line between too much and too little. I have to push without breaking, listen and hear them, but not be led by them. Some of my most amazing clients are sissies!

With that in mind... The majority of people (typically men, although one TV has approached me with the same cocky attitude) who approach me for Sissy Training are not sissies. They are time wasting, arrogant dicks. These guys want to waltz in, and in an hour get sissy training and a dick in their ass.

Usually, within 30 seconds they are reassuring me that they are not gay, but they would really love it if I could humiliate them by setting them up a gang bang, in which they are forced to sexually please some random men. Um...??? Hello????

What Domme has a stable of men who are willing to fuck a guy who they have no sexual history on, no testing, at her command?? Who the hell has time for that? And what about legality? It is not legal to orchestrate a gang rape. It is not ethical to arrange for someone to have sex with someone else with no condoms and no reasonable surety of their health. These jerk offs insist that they MUST have pegging. And that they MUST be used by me. That I MUST sit on their face.

One person ever has earned pegging from me. You gotta be pretty damned special to get that amount of love from me, I will tell you what.

I certainly do not let my sissy sluts touch any part of me. They have not that privilege.

These arrogant selfish fools think that I should be able to supply them with a sissy wardrobe. Of course I have a sissy wardrobe for EVERY shoe size and body size. I don't cross share wigs either. I prefer my sissies bring their own. Heck, if Sissy A sucks my dildo, it goes into a container labeled with that Sissies name (AFTer proper cleaning!!) I am a safety orientated gal.

Bad news.. If you think you are getting sissy training in an hour ha!! what you will get is a taste. If you think sissy training is all about guilt free penetration of your anus in our homophobic world, guess again. If you think any damned man dictates to me what I MUST do and what I MUST allow them, you are oh so mistaken.

These guys are wanking off, wanting me to tell them all the naughty things I will do. (sorry, your 2 minutes is up. Google that shit) These guys haggle over my price, want right now bookings and are rude, disrespectful and pathetic.

Now... if you did one of these things (and only one) I likely told you off.

If you apologized sufficiently I am likely still speaking to you.

If you did one or more of these things, and no longer get a response when you text/call/email.. guess what? you are banned.

I likely listed you as a time waster on blacklist sites. My point? Sissy training is a beautiful, but incredibly challenging journey. If you desire this journey, here are some tips

1. Don't assume your idea of what you want is what the Mistress you approach is willing to give.

2. Use respectful language. Manners, please.

3. Understand that the stories online are stories.

4. Be safe in your choice of a Mistress. Ask for references. Be willing to pay a lesser fee to meet for coffee first. (yes, I DO charge for coffee consults.)

5. If you find someone willing to invest that sort of time in you, arrive clean and ready.

6. If you are in it for the anal sex, but you are just so ashamed that you want such a thing that you need to feel forced, say so. Don't dress it up as sissy training or a kink. There are many service providers who do this sort of thing, I am simply not one of them.

7. Don't write me a script.

8. Be ready and willing to learn, grow and experience.

9. Communicate with honesty.

And hey, have fun. Fun is what brought most of us here, hey?